The birth of a child is a unique event ... During the nine months of waiting the expectant mother begins to make contact with your puppy, to imagine, to create a space for him, not only physically prepared the bedroom or perhaps the first buying clothes, but also on a psychological level, a space in mind that accommodate the baby and that his arrival will change the lives of parents. The dialogue of the mother with her child during pregnancy is given in accordance with, the mother feels the first movements of the little light as soap bubbles bursting, or like the beating of wings of a butterfly, then more vigorous and through these feelings begin to become aware of the life growing inside her. The dialogue in this period is made of caresses, words muffled in each other's hearts beating. It 's time of the "imaginary child, every mother that builds in his mind. What will my child? Look like me or dad? That character will have? It 'also the time of the doubts and fears. Will be healthy? I will be can be a good mother to him? I will love? The questions are many and the mother needs to make room in himself to build a new equilibrium. From mother to daughter, from girl to adult woman, the changes that motherhood brings are large and deep, and call into play the dynamics dormant, such as family, his relationship with his mother, his own childhood. It 's a bit like if the expectant mother, in order to fully accept the child who is coming, she herself had to return a little girl, go through the first moments of his life: in short, see the world through the eyes of children. During pregnancy, the emotions of the pregnant woman are amplified, mixed joy and sadness, intense both, the mother is literally struck by a cyclone emotional, too similar to what evidence a child, who still can not give a name and meaning to feelings and emotions he feels, but warns on full force.
If you think of the pregnancy, it is surprising that nature has built a time when she could reorganize their own pace and thoughts in anticipation of the arrival of a new little person, sleep changes, there are frequent awakenings that prepare the nights when the baby will require care, the breasts begin to change and to produce what will become the food for our puppy, our whole body, as well as our mind, is preparing the event: the arrival of a child in the world, the most natural thing, yet most amazing life. This period is so important in the life of a woman can be compared in some ways entering puberty. Again, a real upheaval in both of body and on a psychological level. You leave childhood and enter adulthood in a case, you leave the role of daughter and parent to enter into another. In both cases, through a "crisis" that it is crucial to be able to access the new state, to allow us to evolve, to grow. Obviously, this step can create fear, uncertainty and doubt that every new mother has to face. Of these fears will talk next time.
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