Nine months have passed, maybe a little less, maybe a little more, and here we get to know our little one. Suddenly, the relationship with him changes, we are now in the arms frugoletto a flesh and blood, perhaps weeping, so fragile and helpless, so needy of all, we would probably ask: Now what? What do I do? We will surely have said something like: Do not worry, you'll see when that happens you'll be all natural! Well, you know what I say to you? It is not true. Or at least not right away. It 'not to be believed: that little that you felt up to a few hours before kick inside of you, now is there, your arms, and he wants you all to himself. Which is obviously great, but if we get a view of a woman who spent nine months of waiting, has had the experience of childbirth (whether spontaneous or Caesarean section) and is perhaps a little tired, maybe things can be seen differently. Emotions are really long, the body was put to the test and everything you would want at this point is a bit of rest. But the beauty is that all the people around, who until two hours before worried that we do not tire, they took us shopping bags etc.., Suddenly seem to expect that we enter immediately into the role of mothers tubes, with a smile on his lips . Now, then, in hospitals, is in vogue and rooming in, meaning that the child is left in the room with the mother 24 hours a day. This practice is certainly positive in some ways, particularly to promote the child's early attachment to the breast and then stimulate the production of milk, which needs a few days to settle on the needs of the child, but I think you should evaluate the situation from woman to woman, to pay attention even the mood of the mother before leaving the baby all the time without even bothering to give any advice on how to proceed. Take for instance my experience: the last four months of pregnancy to rest at home for risk of preterm delivery, full attention, I felt great, but I could not do almost anything, then caesarean to give birth to my twins, with some problem of blood values \u200b\u200bupside luckily resolved. I was happy to finally know my two little puppy, but did not really know what to do with them, and say that with my work on things I had read a lot, but this was not something I had read, no, this was the reality, I assure you, is something quite different. I just wanted to get some sleep, to recover some energy. Instead I was surrounded by hospital staff who kept telling me: But, sir, must take the breast, if not now attack the attacks more ... And to my requests to take them for a few hours in the nursery so you can sleep a little, they made me feel like a bad mother, one who "did not want his daughters". Behold, I tell you this to tell you that when you finally put your puppy in the world, a bit of rest you deserve it.
There will be those who will not understand this thing, and you will be tested physically and psychologically, you are fragile and can make you feel inadequate. So it's important that people close to you, your husband, your parents, you support in this delicate moment, recognize that you have really done an outstanding job and is now a rest is really the least you can have. When you choose a hospital or clinic where you will give birth to your puppy, find out about services offered to support the mothers about breastfeeding. The nurses are roaming the rooms and give advice on how to breastfeed? There is a possibility ilbimbo choose to send to the nest at night? Maybe not first think about it, but things are really important! Breastfeeding is a natural thing, it's true, but it is not always so simple, especially at the beginning, and it is very easy for an unfair attack, run into problems such as cracked nipples or engorgement, which would add to fatigue and stress already accumulated. Pretend to be advised on this issue, the staff is there for this reason! It 'important that breastfeeding is a serene experience, where mother and child build a harmony that will accompany them for the first months of life of the child. In almost all of the ASL are breastfeeding support groups, where mothers can meet to exchange advice and support, if you feel that you are not experiencing breastfeeding as you would have thought, if you feel tense and frustrated, go to these groups with your children. If nothing else, take a breath of fresh air, see new people, you can talk and express your concerns and maybe find that most of the mothers living exactly what you are experiencing. At first it seems impossible, but gradually the confusion and uncertainty of the early days and are not really begin to make contact with your children, to know them, understand their needs. They, meanwhile, get to know you, after all the hustle and bustle of birth need a moment to understand what happened to ...
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